ignorance...

sometimes i feel that ignorance is a blessing in disguise...cause the more that we know,the more responsibility we got to bear...and more often then not the responsibility that we bear will always take it's toll and then we'll be to jaded or exhausted to continue...
some of us are often spread too thin when we can really excel if only we concentrate on ONE task and move on from there...
so next question is when do we start to ignore others...or rather when do i start to ignore others...well to me ignoring is a selfish thing but then again it's not always about others...being human gives me the right to be selfish...right?
problem is that i can't...i've tried to...but can't...and that has sometimes gotten me unhappy...when i do something for someone i really wanna do it the best that i can and well i've learned that sometimes your best isn't good enough for the other person...so how do you stop?when do you stop?CAN you stop?
which is better...to not help at all or to stop halfway or better still finished the whole thing and not be happy...
i hate being ignored...and really i've come to the point where i feel what's the point of making others happy and yourself unhappy...well so long to being nice and prim and proper...it's time and this time is all gonna be about me...not more going out of the way for others unless they are worth it la...i do have friends who's always there for me and they are worth more than words can describe...
so ignorance IS bliss...after all...